Simple Ways to Engage Toddlers During Photo Sessions

I’ve been a family photographer for more than a decade, and have photographed countless toddlers and small children. Along the way, I’ve picked up some easy ways to make toddler photo shoots more fun! Yes, they can be unpredictable, they move as fast as lightning, have *big* emotions, but they’re honestly my favorite to work with! You never know what they’re going to do, so it’s impossible for the photos to feel overly posed or stiff! Here are a few of my tried and true techniques to help toddler photo sessions go a little more smoothly!

Feed them first!

Sessions are often scheduled in the evening for light, so make sure they have a hearty snack or even an early dinner so they aren’t hangry! I’ve totally had to photoshop an orange snack cup out of multiple images because a sweet little one was so ravenous that even after a lengthy snack break, she still needed to hold her puff cup!

Along the same lines, try to make sure they get a good nap, and don’t schedule any shots the week before your session!

Play Their Favorite Tunes:

Music works like magic. Play your toddler’s favorite songs and watch them light up. Dance, sing, and be silly together. It’s a great way to capture natural smiles and laughter. We do this in the studio all the time! Don’t ask me how many times I’ve listened to “Baby Shark!” 

Incorporate Their Favorite Toy: Bring along their favorite toy or stuffed animal- bonus points if it’s neutral or classic. It can be a comfort item and also a great prop for candid shots, and helps you remember more about *this* stage! I have several wooden toys like boats, trains, blocks and rattles, as well as knit dolls in soft tones. These can add a sweet detail and keep your kiddo engaged without being super distracting!

Use Funny Faces and Sounds: Never underestimate the power of a funny face or a silly sound. Peek-a-boo, funny animal noises, or even a playful ‘I’m going to get you’ can lead to adorable expressions.

One word of caution- too many people making crazy noises and faces can be overwhelming, so stick with one person standing behind the photographer!

Something Unexpected: A long handled feather duster and a squeaky pirate chicken dog toy are my secret weapons to getting real smiles from toddlers! They never expect to be tickled with a feather duster, and the sweet little face they make when expecting the tickle is adorable!

You can also hand them a piece of clear tape to get them to sit, at least for a moment! 

Take Breaks: Toddlers have short attention spans. Don’t push for continuous shooting. Take breaks, let them play, and then come back for more snaps.

Use prompts: I have a handful of silly prompts or questions to ask toddlers that can get real smiles and fun candid shots! Try some of these:

– Do you know who lives in my camera? Spiderman! Look really close – can you see him? He jumps out when I take a photo! *Snaps photo* Did you see him??? (This only works with a “real” camera not usually a phone, but worth a try either way!)

– Let’s play a game of “who can laugh the loudest?” Ready 1-2-3 laugh!! (Pro tip – the REAL laugh will come a few seconds after the loud laugh)

– Does a cat say “woof woof??” A cat goes “woof woof” right?? No?? Are you sure? I’m pretty sure a cat says “woof woof!” How about a cow? What does a cow say? “Meowwwww?”

– Ask them to tell mommy or their sibling their favorite (animal, toy, tv show, etc). They might not laugh but it’ll get cute “whispering” shots and you might get a giggle or two! 

We run on the kiddos time at a session. They are naturally curious and full of energy, which means they may not always cooperate with our vision.
 

How YOU can help your toddler take more genuine photos and have more fun!

Lower expectations: Whether your photo session is an impromptu one with your phone or you’re hiring a photographer, the best way to be pleasantly surprised is to lower your expectations. 

Instead of aiming for perfect poses, embrace the candid and unscripted moments!

These unfiltered shots often turn out to be the most authentic and heartwarming – and you get to see more of your child’s personality! 

Don’t Stress: Toddlers are incredibly perceptive, and they can pick up on your anxiety. 

If you’re relaxed and happy, they’re more likely to be the same! 

When you’re having fun together, those genuine smiles and expressions will naturally emerge, resulting in photos that truly reflect the joy of the moment.

Whether you’re headed to a professional photoshoot or you’re taking photos at home with your cell phone, the key to capturing those priceless, spontaneous moments with your little ones isn’t about the perfect pose or smile.

It’s about using some tricks to get real laughs & candid moments and have fun with it! Those are the moments we cherish as parents, right?

If you’d like more tips like this, download my Finding Magic in the Chaos PDF!

Contact me to start planning your toddler photo session!

There’s something beautiful about being photographed in a space that feels calm, simple, and inviting.

That’s exactly why I created my lifestyle photography studio in Chesapeake, Virginia!

It’s neutral by design with soft whites, warm textures, organic tones, so your images will feel timeless and blend beautifully into your own home. No bold colors competing for attention. No trendy backdrops that date quickly. Just light, connection, and the ones you love most.

I truly believe that your photos shouldn’t just live on your phone, they should fit into your life and home effortlessly where they can bring joy and remind you of your greatest blessings.

Dreamy Light, All Year Long

One of the most special things about the studio is the light. I love it when a client enters for the first time- their soft “oh wow!” when they walk through the door. It’s a space that feels calm and inviting, like you can exhale.

It’s soft, consistent and dreamy in every season.

Whether it’s the middle of winter or the heat of summer, the light pours in and wraps around you in a way that feels gentle and natural. You don’t have to chase golden hour or worry about weather. The glow is always here.

And that means your images will always feel warm, no matter the month.

The “In-Home” Feel… Without the Overwhelm

So many families love the idea of lifestyle, in-home photos.

But in reality, that means decluttering, cleaning, moving furniture and stressing about whether the light in your house is “good enough.”

In the studio, you get the cozy, snuggly, relaxed look of in-home photography without any of the pressure.

No rushing to tidy up.
No wondering if your baseboards will show.
No last-minute scrambling.

You simply show up and know that a beautiful space (and wardrobe!) is waiting for you.

A Space That Invites Connection

The studio is intentionally cozy with several seating options and textures. Open floor space allows little ones to move naturally. Simple setups encourage snuggling, playing, and being present.

It’s not about stiff posing.

It’s about:

• Babies curled into your chest
• Toddlers climbing into your lap
• Quiet maternity moments
• Gentle laughter and movement

The space holds that beautifully.

Everything You Need Is Already Here

You don’t have to bring a trunk full of options or wonder what will photograph well.

I have:

• A thoughtfully curated client wardrobe with high quality dresses from Jamie Kay, Femme and Fawn, Free People, and Nothing Fits But
• Simple props like baskets, stools, benches, and seasonal florals
• Clean, timeless pieces that enhance and never distract

And for mamas wanting something extra special, there is a beautiful tub available for milk bath sessions or intimate maternity portraits. The simplicity of it creates images that feel soft, feminine, and deeply personal.

All you have to do is walk in the door.

Come As You Are

The heart behind this studio is simple:

I want you to feel taken care of.

I want the experience to feel easy.
Restful.
Even a little like a deep breath.

You don’t need a perfectly styled home.
You don’t need to stress over details.

You just need to show up ready to love on your people.

The rest is already here waiting for you.

I’m so excited to create timeless, cherished photos for your family. Please contact me so we can start planning your session!

The Beauty of a First Year Photography Membership in Hampton Roads

I know it feels like you’ll remember every detail, but trust me- the newborn scrunch, gummy smiles and knee dimples, the first wobbly steps… it all happens so quickly! It’s on to the next stage, and those moments that seemed so significant gradually fade into hazy memories.

That’s why I created my First Year Membership for families in Virginia Beach, Chesapeake, and Norfolk, Virginia. Instead of scrambling to book a session at each stage, you get to relax knowing that your baby’s first year will be beautifully documented from beginning to end.

Why Choose a First Year Membership?

1. A Relationship That Grows With You

From your maternity session to your baby’s first birthday, you’re not just working with a photographer, you’re working with someone who gets to know your family, your story, and your style. That means by the time we’re capturing your little one’s first steps, you feel comfortable and confident in front of the camera, and know what to expect each time! And if there are older siblings? Working with the same photographer makes the process SO much easier and more fun since they don’t have to warm up to a stranger!

2. Every Milestone, Without the Stress

The first year is full of milestones you’ll never want to forget: tiny newborn fingers, tummy time grins, sitting up, crawling, and finally standing tall at one year. With the membership, you don’t have to remember to schedule each session- it’s already planned out for you.

3. Consistent Style, Beautiful Storytelling

When you work with the same photographer across the year, your images naturally tell a cohesive story. Each session flows into the next, creating a collection that feels intentional and timeless. Imagine an album that begins with your maternity glow and ends with cake-covered baby smiles- it’s a legacy you’ll treasure.

4. Guidance Every Step of the Way

As a full-service photographer in Hampton Roads, I’ll walk you through every detail: styling with my curated client closet, choosing locations that reflect your family, and finally helping you turn those images into artwork. You won’t have to wonder what to do with hundreds of digital files-I’ll guide you in creating albums and wall art that grow with your family.

Bump to Birthday: The Fastest Year

Your baby’s first year is a story worth telling, not just through quick snapshots on your phone, but through intentional, beautifully crafted photography that celebrates each season.

If you’re expecting or have a little one under three months, now is the perfect time to join the First Year Membership. There are so many perks to joining the membership- complementary images, discounts on artwork, first access to limited edition sessions (Lavender, cherry blossoms, etc!). Together, we’ll create a legacy of images that you’ll look back on long after the baby years have passed.

📍 Serving families in Chesapeake, Virginia Beach, Norfolk, and the greater Hampton Roads area.

Learn more about the First Year Collection here.

Contact me to start planning your session!

There’s something so special about watching a family grow and change over time — and getting to document each sweet chapter along the way, including this East Beach family session, is truly one of my favorite parts of this job.

I’ve had the absolute joy of photographing this beautiful family since their now two-year-old was still growing in mama’s belly. From their maternity session to newborn snuggles, and now capturing this season as they prepare to welcome another precious little one — it’s been such an honor to preserve these milestones for them.

We met at East Beach, but since we’ve already done one beach session, chose to the gorgeous oak trees and beautiful blooms as their backdrop. The lawn provided lots of space for their busy little one to run, and we all had a bit of a workout keeping up with him!

The best part of photos with little ones is that they feel natural and joyful, and never overly posed. I photograph quickly and always have little games and fun prompts to keep them engaged! I bring my 14 year old daughter to nearly every session with toddlers so she can help me wrangle and evoke natural smiles- usually with a squeaky pirate chicken or a tickle from a long handled feather duster!

I’m so excited for this family to welcome another brother in the fall, for their big move to North Carolina!

While I’m a little sad to see them leave, I’m so incredibly happy for them as they enter this new season, surrounded by loved ones and with a new baby on the way. Documenting these fleeting moments is exactly why I love what I do — capturing the joy, the connection, and the sweet in-between that makes family life so beautiful.

📩 Let’s start planning your session! Fill out my contact form to get started.

If you’re ready to document your family’s next chapter, I’d love to create something beautiful for you, too. 💕

Are you a mom to be who is looking for a Chesapeake newborn photographer but have some questions?

Don’t worry, I’m here to help!

As a newborn photographer and also a former occupational therapist, I understand the value and importance of capturing these early moments of your baby’s life because they truly change so quickly!

If you’re a mama to be, you’re probably overwhelmed with all the decisions you need to make, but newborn photography doesn’t have to be one of them!

So many of my clients reserve their sessions months before their due dates so that they aren’t scrambling at the last minute. The reality is that you never know how you’ll feel or how quickly you’ll recover after birth, so being able to check as many things off your list as possible is a way to make things a little easier, in case you do need some extra rest and recovery time post-birth!

Let’s dive into some of the most common questions about newborn photography.

“What should I look for when hiring a newborn photographer?”

It’s important to choose a photographer who specializes in newborn photography and has experience working with infants. Personally, I had years of experience working with newborns prior to my photography business as both a nanny and an occupational therapist with NICU experience! I also have additional safety training so that I can provide a comfortable, safe, and enjoyable experience for you and your baby. I understand the importance of capturing these early moments, and I take pride in creating beautiful, timeless memories that will bring joy for years to come.

“What can I expect during a newborn photography session?”

During a newborn photography session, I’ll create a comfortable and safe environment for your baby, and guide you through natural poses. You can include your family members in the photos, and I encourage parents and siblings to participate in this special moment.

To capture the best sleepy moments, it’s important to schedule your newborn photography session fairly early, ideally within the first two weeks of your baby’s life. Of course, if there are circumstances that prevent this, there is never a wrong time to document your baby! I’ve worked with twins who spent 3 months in the NICU, and a 4 week old who slept like a champ and was perfectly chunky and precious! My approach is baby led and natural, so I won’t be forcing them into any poses or positions, so although the first 2 weeks tend to be sleepier, I love photographing babies of all ages! I do recommend booking your session as soon as possible during your pregnancy to ensure availability.

“Do I need to bring anything?”

One of the perks of an in studio session is that you just have to show up! You’ll have access to my beautiful Client Closet, wraps, bonnets, bows, snuggly knit outfits, and diaper covers. Optionally, some clients choose to bring a special heirloom outfit or toy to incorporate.

“When will I get my photos?”

After the session, you can expect to have your Gallery Reveal and Ordering appointment within a week or two! I offer a range of options that include both digital files and prints. I’m happy to work with you to create a customized package that meets your specific needs.

“How much does newborn photography cost?”

My Studio Menu is designed so that you can select exactly what you love. Pricing depends on what you choose, and can range from $500 to $3,000. I know this might seem like a significant investment, but keep in mind that newborn photography is a specialized service that requires a lot of time, education, and equipment, and I specialize in creating heirloom artwork. My goal is for you to have tangible memories of your baby’s first days, instead of just files on your hard drive or phone! I’m dedicated to providing high-quality images & products that you’ll cherish for a lifetime!

Since your baby changes SO much in the first year, many mamas go with my First Year Membership so they can document every sweet stage! There are lots of perks and exclusive benefits, and it’s a wonderful option if you don’t want to miss any little detail!

So, there you have it! Newborn photography is a wonderful way to capture the early moments of your baby’s life and I do my best to take care of all the details, so all you have to do is show up!

If you have any questions about newborn photography or would like to learn more about booking a session at my studio, click here to fill out my contact form.

I’m here to help you create beautiful, timeless memories of this special time in

your family’s life!

Click here to see more of my newborn images

Click here to see an example of a newborn session in my lifestyle studio!

I can’t believe I’m just now blogging this unforgettable Sweethaven Lavender Picnic photography session! Bre wanted to celebrate her 32nd birthday in a special way after surviving a challenging 2020 (I think we all need to celebrate that!) She went all out! When you combine lavender, best friends, and amazing charcuterie, I’m in!

She hired Sparrow + Elm to style an incredible picnic in the lavender field, and I’ve never seen anything like it outside of a magazine! Melissa worked SO hard in the insane heat to put together this stunning spread! The candles may have melted, but so did our hearts (ha so cheesy! Brie maybe?)

This was my first friends photo session, and I loved it so much! Everyone was so fun and carefree! I love how all the outfits came together, and were absolutely perfect for the setting.  Bre used my Style Guide membership to help everyone coordinate. It’s such a neat service to help you visualize how all pieces will look together! She ended up with the perfect balance of color, texture and pattern! The hats, baskets and flower crowns were the perfect accessories to complete the looks!

Y’all, it was SO HOT! We were all sweating, but somehow Bre still looks like a goddess!

Bre, I’m so honored to have been able to help you document your amazing friendships, and a much needed birthday celebration after such a hard year! I hope these photos always bring you joy, and help you get through the hard times!